Bridal Party Who Pays for What

Knowing who pays for what is good information to have before deciding who to ask to be a part of your bridal party. Honestly addressing concerns in the beginning, may save hard feelings and misunderstandings once the planning begins. The bridal party should be those with a meaningful and thoughtful relationship to the couple. Consider life situations, but don't assume a member will not be able to participate without having the proper conversation. That is why knowing what you as the bride are willing to do from the start, will be one of the best conversations in which to engage.

Here are a list of items the bridal party typically is responsible for and a list of things the bride should assume responsibility for. Feel free to offer genuine assistance as needed, especially if there is a real desire to have a particular friend as part of your celebration. Remember, whatever you do to assist is a private matter and should not be discussed with the entire party. Another suggestion is to remember there are plenty ways in which special friends may contribute to the celebration which may be easier on the pocket. Consider allowing a friend that may not be able to bear the cost of being in the ceremony, as ushers or hostesses for the occasion.

Bridal Party Pays For:

Cost of gowns

Cost of Shoes

Special Under Garments if required

Bachelorette Party

Split the cost of at least one shower for the bride

Jewelry (Unless the bride gives jewelry as a gift)

Bride Pays For:

Cost of Makeup if you require a professional (if you are impartial, the party should pay for their own)

Cost of Hair if you require a professional (if you are impartial, the party should pay for their own)

Floral Arrangements for the Party to Carry

Hotel expense if you require that the Party stays together the night prior to the wedding

Most importantly, don't allow miscommunication to ruin a once in a lifetime experience. Have the right conversations and move along with the planning and enjoy the day!